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🖱️ Ever wondered why you ‘click’ with someone new?
Plus: Mental health screenings urged for new mothers

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🖱️ Ever wondered why you ‘click’ with someone new?
🤱 Mental health screenings urged for new mothers
😇 Kindness = more physically attractive
Ever wondered why you ‘click’ with someone new? 🖱️
According to a recent study, people who instantly connect often experience neural synchrony, meaning their brains are basically vibing on the same wavelength.
Shared backgrounds, values, or just a knack for finishing each other’s… sandwiches (or sentences) also help.
Even the way we speak plays a role. If you’re unconsciously mirroring someone’s language, you might be onto something.
Oh, and of course, laughter is the ultimate social glue. If you’re both cackling at the same joke, chances are you’re wired to get along.

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Mental health screenings urged for new mothers 🤱
The American Heart Association has highlighted a crucial link between mental and cardiovascular health during and after pregnancy.
Their latest statement stresses that screening for anxiety and depression in expectant mothers could improve both short- and long-term health outcomes. Given that psychological distress is linked to heart health risks, integrating mental health care into prenatal and postpartum visits is essential.
Early interventions, whether through therapy, medication, or lifestyle adjustments, can make a significant difference.
Addressing psychological well-being is a key factor in maternal and infant survival.

Kindness = more physically attractive 😇
Turns out, kindness isn’t just good for your soul, it might also make you look better.
A new study in the British Journal of Social Psychology found that people seen as kind and helpful are also rated as more physically attractive.
Across ten studies with 4,000+ participants, researchers found that prosocial behavior (like generosity and cooperation) boosted perceived beauty more than humor or intelligence.
This wasn’t just a one-time fluke either as consistent kindness had the biggest impact on how attractive a person was.
So while grooming routines and skincare can help, being a decent human might do more for your looks than any product ever could.

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